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REMARRIED. When 37-year-old Johanna looks back on her first marriage, she is glad she did not listen to the advice that she would bite the bullet and stop. She and ex-husband met when they were very young, but only had two really good years together.
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Johanna and Hakan had only been married about a year when he suddenly said he wanted a divorce. Before that, they had been a couple for eight years. They were both around 30 years then. Although technika tv problems she had thought of separation, but several in the surrounding tried to pep them to stick together.
- Just before Hakan dropped the bomb I had aired my own doubts for mom, during a weekend trip without telling too closely. technika tv problems I told him I did not think it was so fun to live with Hakan.
Johanna and Hakan was a marvelous couple. He was tall and dark, she was tall and blond. They lived nicely, had good jobs and a good position in the local society. Everything was "right." They had met when they were over 20 and "was in a hurry to grow up and fit into the middle-class norm," as Johanna puts it. The first two years were good, then it was quiet and boring.
- It was one of those classy technika tv problems wedding technika tv problems you dream about. Or as the bride dream of, for the most part, the frequently about her. I ruled it out there right clever. And so distinguishes himself a year later. A real belly flop. People wondered understood why we got married - well, what do you answer that?
- Our divorce was friendly. It was a cowardice from both their side that we have not talked about things that happened and discussed why it was that it became. We did not have any financial disputes. There was no mudslinging, no fighting, no children came pinched.
The first few months after the divorce, they were seen regularly and could sit side by side on the couch and go through the paper, completely amicable. Only when she by her mother learned that he had a new relationship and child on the way, Johanna technika tv problems felt the need to have Hakan at a substantial distance. She was disappointed and angry that he had not himself said anything.
- You have not really track of who you are if you have been together a long time. I think that everyone says. But I would move to another technika tv problems city, find a job, an apartment, myself ... The ground rocked beneath technika tv problems me, the blackened eyes periodically.
Johanna fulfilled his dream to live in the city. She bought a small apartment in need of renovation and sanded, primed and painted through her divorce. And then she kissed quite a few frogs and went on just as many rivets technika tv problems before she met her current husband.
- As recently divorced, I thought that the art of being strong is to be tough. I got my many layers of lacquer, mastered dating technika tv problems games around Stureplan, knew how many days would pass before they would call. You could date someone for quite some time before they dared show his true self.
- He was true from the start, clearly showed that "Now it's you and me." It took a couple of clashes with him before I dared to be more skinless again. Niklas helped me find myself, daring to show more emotion and be inclusive rather than exclusive.
When she has just had met Niklas she was back in her old hometown. There, she was told that her ex-husband had a child. As Johanna and Hakan had tried to have children she concluded that it was she who could not have children. It was painful.
- It gets better. It bothered in the end not be sad anymore. It will pass. The strange thing is that you will not even remember how sad you were, how själsförvridande it was. That you were sorry you remember, but not how.
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